Here are some helpful articles to assist with your philanthropy journey.
Merrill Lynch - How much should I give to my family?
Merrill Lynch – Rising Generation
NY Times - The Moral Bucket List – David Brooks
NCFP- Children not dollars
NCFP - 2015 Trends in Family Philanthropy (link to requesting executive summary and full report)
You may also wish to learn more about the National Center for Family Philanthropy (NCFP)